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How should you talk to your parents about estate planning?

On Behalf of | Sep 12, 2023 | Estate Planning - Estate Administration & Probate

Estate planning is a crucial aspect of financial preparedness that often gets overlooked in family discussions. A serious subject like this may leave adult children feeling overwhelmed and not knowing where to start.

Even if your parents do not show any signs of being interested in estate planning, being proactive may help them think more about this topic.

Choose the best time and place

Selecting an appropriate time and setting for this conversation is essential. Opt for a quiet, relaxed atmosphere where everyone can focus without distractions. A family gathering or a peaceful evening at home might be suitable.

Prepare yourself

Before initiating the conversation, gather relevant information about estate planning and its importance. This will help you address your parents’ concerns and questions effectively. Having a clear understanding of the topic will also demonstrate your commitment.

Begin with open-ended questions

People in the baby boomer generation, the second-largest generation in America, number around 73 million. As that generation ages, they need to think more about their later years and what they may leave to their family after they die. To ease into the conversation, start by asking your parents open-ended questions. Encourage them to share their thoughts and concerns.

You can also express your concerns regarding their estate planning, emphasizing the importance of ensuring a smooth transition of assets and the avoidance of potential conflicts among heirs.

Listen actively

Listening is key during this conversation. Allow your parents to share their wishes and concerns without interruption. Show empathy and understanding for their perspectives.

Offer resources

Share informative materials or resources that can help your parents better understand estate planning, such as books, articles or websites. This can empower them to make informed decisions.

Create a plan of action

Collaborate with your parents to establish a plan of action. This may include setting specific goals, creating a list of assets or discussing potential beneficiaries. Ensure that everyone understands their role in the process.

Discussing estate planning with your adult parents can have numerous benefits, including helping them have peace of mind. As responsible adults, it is important to initiate a conversation with your parents to ensure others respect their wishes and manage their assets effectively.